SPOOKY! Nilima, I actually just recently started talking to a life/career coach and she seems to be the real deal. You’re SO RIGHT about having to go all the way. There is no half-assing, my heart can’t take it. I am in the process of radically believing in myself — but I realize how painstaking and difficult this transition is. Years and years of self doubt and self hatred will do that to you. Thank you so much for writing and for being a little bit psychic. :)