Hi Louis! I am so happy this resonated with you (misery loves company ;)) I wish us BOTH a successful future. I think this essay that I wrote and the fact that people are responding so crazily to it, is evidence that things can change sometimes in an instant (like, almost 3,000 people have read it at this point?! how is that possible?!) and that we can grow from this challenging, humbling and awkward time in our lives. Much appreciation!